How long does it take a MAN to become a MAN???

Not to many will agree but it's not like I care so here we go..... I know women all around the world can't wait for that day when there man grows up or learns how to take things seriously or become more responsible but just like there are women who feel that way there are others who wish there man had some humor or wouldn't take things so seriously. Look Here is the deal becoming a man is a life time thing. It has no age or no special date. I will say that you don't start to become a man until you can figure out what's most important in life. Without that info were just lost. Something like the crew of Jersey Shore......lol. Now those cats have issues.......lol The Situation c'mon.... are you serious...... WOW. Anyway as a man we need an end game. Something to shoot for if not we look lost and that's not a good look. You can spot the lost man from a mile away. How you say cause he's always looking for that next big thing. There is no foundation. He's never in one place to long. Once a man finds something truly important to him he become in sync with things a lot quicker then the lost one....... Now for you woman just because the man your with isn't acting like the man you want him to be doesn't mean that he's less of a man. It just mean that he's not a robot.....lol. You will never know what kind of man he is until you allow him to become the man HE WANTS TO BE. Men are easy please don't complicate us any more because that's when you become frustrated with us and well that's the beginning of the end. With that said good luck, good reading and good night.